Feeling depleted, tired, overwhelmed, uninspired, or even chasing the wrong things is like being trapped in a hamster wheel.
Don't let it wear you down any longer!
My mentor, Brendon Bouchard, asks this powerful question:
At the end of life, we ask: Did I live, love, and make an impact?
What will be your answer?
It's not a small task especially after everything around you shuttered. It's likely the biggest reinvention of your life, yet.
You don't need to walk it alone
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You were always the strong one but it feels like the carpet was pulled from underneath you. You can't even recognize yourself. You're now ready to navigate the new reality with grace and redefine your life so it fits YOU and your new dreams. FIGURE OUT WHO YOU ARE - NOW.
Yes, that time comes even after you suffered an unimaginable loss. Here you are, LIVING, and finding your way in a brand new situation. You say you're OK but deep inside, you know ...
When you lose your spouse, it can feel like you lost a big part of yourself - but it also opens your eyes to a much bigger appreciation of life, the value of time, and the meaning of it all.
You and I just got a painful reminder not to WASTE another minute.
So, how do you turn the worst thing that ever happened to you into an accomplishment you can feel proud of?
It's a process. Have patience with yourself.
You'll need to BECOME again, rise, and start living your best life. You have questions. When the time is right, you will be open to guidance, new ideas, and even opportunities.
You deserve to live a meaningful life, make an impact, and leave a legacy to be proud of.
Your dream life got a new urgency.
Discover who you are NOW.Let's talk
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If that's you, WELCOME!
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WIDOW AT 54, NOW WHAT?
All our plans, established relationships, lifestyle, shared values, deep understanding... gone.
It took me a while to admit that I couldn't move forward on my own no matter how strong I've always been. Your friends are there for you but can't really relate to what you're going through. I didn't want to bother anyone with my grief. For the first year and a half, I wouldn't even utter the word WIDOW. It didn't belong to me, it felt wrong.
And so I was slowly running myself into a ditch. Unable to get back on my feet yet proud to admit it. It's not difficult to slide deep into depression, even with a smile on your face assuring everyone you're "just fine".
Lucky for me, I had coaches/friends, who didn't buy it and threw a lifeline, almost at the last minute.
Once I opened myself to guidance, my mind got much clearer. Shortly after, I knew it was time and I wanted to turn my experiences and coaching expertise into helping fellow other widows navigate back toward their sunshine. That's why I started a safe, widows-only circle, called Vera's Triumph Club. Nobody gets you better than another widow.
If you feel it's time for you, too - reach out for a Virtual cup of coffee, and let's see if that's something you were looking for to help you create your new world. We'd love to have you!
"I was searching for a life coach for my mom when I found Vera. Simply put, she has been outstanding. During our initial 30-minute phone session, I never once felt rushed and I could tell Vera was listening to me. My mom has spoken with several different professionals and Vera is the first one who has been able to make any sort of breakthrough. Coach Vera is humble, kind, and professional; and I would highly recommend her services."
"I felt like my world ended when I lost my boyfriend. We had all these plans to travel the world, get married, but seemingly there was time for everything. Until it wasn't. After I spoke with Vera, I saw my prospects from an entirely different perspective. I knew she was the one to help me get myself back together. With her expertise and support, we created a whole new exciting project I found my purpose in. I would have wasted years going in circles, had I not found her at the right time. "
"Vera is a great listener and a sensitive coach. She helped me transition from a stressful divorce, dealing with serious health issues, moving, changing careers, and a whole emotional drain. She helped me keep things in perspective when I was losing my mind. Thanks to her I was able to make the right decisions about my own future and found the confidence to start over again. I trust her talents 100% and wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Coach Vera to others."
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